One of the best ways to be a Christian witness is to exercise the fruit of patience. When the pressures of life mount up, it's natural to want to find someone to blame for everything that ales us. The mature Christian should be able to resist the nature of the flesh. We should look for opportunities to catch people doing good instead of eagerly laying in wait to catch them messing up. Pointing out the shortcomings of others does not add any value to the accuser.
By Mike Verdin